Wedding music sets the mood. It brings the magic. From walking down the aisle to that final song at midnight, it’s the heartbeat of your big day.
Feeling overwhelmed with all the choices? Don’t worry—we’ve got your back. This guide breaks it down step by step. Whether you’re into classical vibes, traditional Irish tunes, or floor-filling bangers, here’s how to plan music that feels totally you.
🎶 1. Break the Day Into Music Moments
Start by dividing the day into key parts:
- Ceremony
- Drinks reception
- Dinner
- First dance
- Evening party
Each moment needs its own soundtrack. This helps you plan faster and keeps everything seamless.
👉 Pro tip: Build a playlist on Spotify. Add songs that match each part of the day. It’ll make decisions easier later.
💒 2. Ceremony Music: Start with the Feels
The ceremony is emotional. So the music should reflect that. It’s where guests first see you—and where your story begins.
Top ceremony options in Ireland:
- String quartet for timeless elegance
- Acoustic duo for a romantic feel
- Traditional Irish musicians for cultural charm
Song inspo:
- “Canon in D” – Pachelbel (a classic for a reason)
- “She Moved Through the Fair” – dreamy and Irish
- “A Thousand Years” – emotional and modern
👉 Try Dublin String Quartet for elegant, live ceremony music.
💡 Not sure what to say in your vows? Our vow writing guide will help you find the perfect words.
🥂 3. Drinks Reception: Keep It Light and Lively
Next comes the drinks reception. Guests are chatting, sipping champagne, and snapping pics. You need music that lifts the vibe but doesn’t drown out conversation.
Great options include:
- Jazz trio
- Acoustic covers
- Irish folk band
- Solo guitarist
For something authentic, book traditional Irish musicians. They create a laid-back, festive feel that guests love.
👉 Browse acts on Trad Wedding Bands—they’ve got amazing performers from all over Ireland.
🍽️ 4. Dinner: Set the Mood with Subtle Tunes
Dinner is chill. But no one likes silence. Keep the energy warm and cosy with low-key tracks.
Go for:
- Soft pop love songs
- Crooners like Sinatra or Etta James
- Irish legends like Christy Moore
Ask your DJ or band about a dinner set. Many offer a background playlist or live acoustic set as part of a package.
💃 5. First Dance: Make It Yours
This is your spotlight moment. Some couples keep it slow and romantic. Others bring on the fun with a choreographed routine.
Popular picks:
- “Perfect” – Ed Sheeran
- “Can’t Help Falling in Love” – Elvis
- “You’ve Got the Love” – Florence + The Machine
- “The One” – Kodaline
Skip the tradition if it’s not your thing. Some couples invite guests onto the floor straight away.
🎧 6. Wedding Music for the Party: Band or DJ?
Time to turn it up! This is where wedding music really shines.
🎤 Live Band:
- Great for energy
- Fun crowd interaction
- Many can mix in trad, ceilí, or pop
🎧 DJ:
- Big song library
- Custom playlists
- Budget-friendly
Can’t decide? Choose both! Book a band for early evening, then switch to a DJ to carry the party into the night.
👉 Find amazing acts at Wedding Bands Ireland.
🥁 7. Want Something Different?
Try something unexpected. It’s a great way to wow your guests and create lasting memories.
Ideas to consider:
- Silent disco (great for noise-restricted venues)
- Ceilí band (fun and interactive)
- Singing waiters (surprise entertainment during dinner)
- Saxophonist or violinist with DJ (Ibiza meets Ireland!)
Planning a non-traditional day? Check out our guide on beach weddings in Ireland.
💰 8. Budget for Your Wedding Music
Costs can vary. Here’s a general guide (in euros):
- Ceremony singer or duo: €300–€700
- Drinks reception music: €500–€1000
- Evening band: €1500–€3000
- DJ: €400–€800
- Band + DJ package: €2000–€4000
Some venues include sound systems or recommend in-house suppliers. Always ask!
📝 9. Ask These Questions Before You Book
Before locking in your music supplier, get answers to these:
- Are you available on our date?
- Do you cover multiple parts of the day?
- Can we pick some of the songs?
- Do you bring your own gear?
- Are you insured?
- Do you need breaks or meals?
Getting this sorted early saves stress later.
📱 10. Save a Playlist for Post-Wedding Feels
Once the big day is done, hold onto the memories. Save a playlist with all the songs from your wedding. Play it on anniversaries or whenever you need a little boost.
It’s a lovely way to relive the magic.
✨ Final Thoughts
Wedding music isn’t just background noise. It’s the soundtrack of your story. It lifts every moment, sets the tone, and brings people together.
Ready to start planning? Use our ultimate wedding checklist to stay on track. And don’t miss our guide to gorgeous Irish venues to help you choose the perfect backdrop.
So, turn up the volume. Pick the tunes. And dance your way into married life. 💕
